I have been dating my BF for over a year now and I honestly don't know if there is anything i really like about him. First and foremost, I don't like his body. I guess i should have been honest with him up front when i saw it for the first time when we made love. But, i wasn't. how can i love him, if i don't find his body attractive?...(there are other things i don't like about him. But, i could get past those)....Help?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on Mar. 9, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ozarkgirl3 at 9:13 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
Answer by mom_wrhsc at 3:22 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
MORE INFO:..........that's just it...I don't think i really do love him. I think i would have rather just been his friend...my sister said it best when she said this: if he was one of four men that was asking you out, at the same time, would you have chosen him?...and i said...No!
Answer by Anonymous at 3:27 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
Answer by ria7 at 3:41 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
MORE INFO:.....i know i have to end it...but, it feels like i love him because i get lonely and sad without him...But, i think it's just because we have been together for over a year now..and i think it's just the companionship..and not really love!...he is a great guy tho...he is sooo sweet, and kind, and patient..and i think i'm going to regret this for the rest of my life...That i had a great guy, and let him go!..but, i know i will never be truly happy either...and i am okay with letting him go. but, it still kinda hurts i guess....sorry, just being honest...!!!
Answer by Anonymous at 3:46 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
Answer by Dannee at 3:50 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
I have never liked his body even in the beginning...i've just learned to live with it...well, kinda...we have not had sex in over 3 months..so, i guess not!!!
Answer by Anonymous at 3:54 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
Answer by camtri3 at 4:26 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
Answer by kathyartist2007 at 6:01 PM on Mar. 9, 2009
HaHaHaHa.....Hell, why didn't i think of that to begin with...??????......LOL....very funny..thanks for the advice....LOL
Answer by Anonymous at 9:40 PM on Mar. 9, 2009