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im lost- if a teenager whos a virgin uses a tampon- she's still a virgin?

i have a 14 yr old- and i know she'd prefer tampons- but im scared to open that door- can somone explain how this is possible-?? to be a virgin using tampons?

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KITTYLITTLES

Asked by KITTYLITTLES at 12:36 PM on Mar. 10, 2009 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Yes, its fine. Tampons aren't big enough to tear hymens.
    Ginger0104

    Answer by Ginger0104 at 12:39 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • what????lol..of course youre a virgin if you use tampons and have never had SEX..lol
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:39 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • Yes she can,both of my daughters used them,they will not break her hymen.
    Val504

    Answer by Val504 at 12:39 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • wow- im so lost So how do u break your hymen? i thought it was the process of something going in? now im so confused- i feel like a 30yr old idiot-lol
    KITTYLITTLES

    Answer by KITTYLITTLES at 12:41 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • A virgin is someone who has never had sexual intercourse. You cannot lose your virginity to a tampon.
    nowhinning

    Answer by nowhinning at 12:41 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • Uh yea of course she is. Losing virginty has to do with SEXUAL INTERCOURSE, not the hymen
    Zakysmommy

    Answer by Zakysmommy at 12:44 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • Alot of girls these days break their hymen at an early age due to riding a bike, riding a horse, a see-saw, things like that. A tampon will be okay, lack of sex defines virginity, not a tampon.
    AK_aries

    Answer by AK_aries at 12:45 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • virâ‹…gin  [vur-jin]
    –noun 1. a person who has never had sexual intercourse.
    2. an unmarried girl or woman.
    3. Ecclesiastical. an unmarried, religious woman, esp. a saint.
    4. the Virgin, Mary, the mother of Christ.
    5. Informal. any person who is uninitiated, uninformed, or the like: He's still a virgin as far as hard work is concerned.
    6. a female animal that has never copulated.
    7. an unfertilized insect.

    Being a virgin has nothing to do with insertion of a tampon. If you put a penis in the vagina you are no longer a virgin, lol.
    ReneeK3

    Answer by ReneeK3 at 12:45 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • the hymen has nothing to do with virginity
    Zakysmommy

    Answer by Zakysmommy at 12:45 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

  • The breaking of the Hyman does not determine your virginity either. Many young women do not have an in-tact Hyman and have never had sexual intercourse. Activities such as swimming, bike riding and horseback riding have been known to cause the Hyman to tear and/or break.


     A tampon does not go in deep enough to break the Hyman. Virginity refers to sexual intercourse only. It's not necessarily the specific act of something entering into the vagina as it is the act of sex WHILE something is entering into the vagina.


     I wore tampons as a teen. Teen periods can be really wonky and really heavy at times. Pads were just bulky and led to embarrassing leaks. Teach her proper hygene with it (you can get very sick if you're not careful) and she'll be fine.

    NovemberLove

    Answer by NovemberLove at 12:46 PM on Mar. 10, 2009

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