About three years ago my SO and I split up because of differences and I had a one night stand with a guy I worked with.I had slept with my SO after that.Well I told my SO because I found out I was pregnant and didn't know whose it was.I ended up losing that baby and I was relieved because I didn't want it to the other guys.My SO and I got back together and I was pregnant within a month.
I didn't mean for it to happen I just was really upset and the other guy said he was a friend but apparentlly he got what he wanted. I still feel horrible about it and he still brings it up all the time.
This wasn't the first time we and broken up and gotten back together and I'm sure he has been with someone else but I can't prove it and I hate it.
What I'm asking am I a horrible person for letting it happen in the first place even though we had split up?
Asked by Anonymous at 8:46 PM on Mar. 10, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 8:53 PM on Mar. 10, 2009
Are you asking if it was wrong to have slept with that other guy? I couldn't tell you that, only you can. Does your SO feel betrayed? does he keep throwing it in your face?If you have apologized already he should let it go otherwise he may not be over the fact that you were under the impression that the two of you were through. If it bothers you that he keeps bringing it up think long and hard about whether or not you can live with the guilt he keeps making you feel. Mistakes happen in life, we (not even him) are not perfect.Nor should anyone expect you to be. Good Luck in this sweetie.
Answer by BooBear666 at 8:53 PM on Mar. 10, 2009
if you were split up you have nothing to apologize for and in my opinion and its just my opinion if you have spilt up and got back together a few times then maybe there is a reason for that and maybe you should seriously consider whether or not you are meant to be!
BTW-- not trying to be rude....but, when i was in a similar situation my friend kinda said the same thing to me and so i had to figure it out know luckily for me we were able to work things out but we REALLY had to work at it...............
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