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SHOULD WE CALL THE COPS??????????????????????????????

My cousin has hand marks on her ankles and she has a hicky on her breast and she has brusies on her thigh area shes 11 years old and we ask her how did she get it and she wont answer she was dictching out of school today we found her at her friends so we dont know what happend she wont say..

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:30 AM on Mar. 11, 2009 in Tweens (9-12)

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Answers (27)
  • she was changing her clothes and i had seen bruises on her thighs you can see them clear as day but were have her goto the doctor tomrrow to get checked and we already e-mail the her school teacher and we also took pictures ... we also noticed she had tried cutting herself and she still isnt saying why she just keeps saying noone touched her she was hangingout with 5 of her friends and she was wearing different clothing wich her friend have gave her ,the friends mother was washing her uniform that she was wearing so we dont know what happend but her friends do... and she also had ditched with 2 boys not that long ago so we dont know if anything has to do with it.. but i will keep everyone updated when i find out
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:27 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • Yup I would
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:31 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • Yes or take her straight to a doctor
    Niki_sd

    Answer by Niki_sd at 12:33 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • Yes or call her doctor and see if they will examine her. Maybe your cousin will open up to her doctor more so than the police.
    lanckn

    Answer by lanckn at 12:34 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • yes i would but if she wont admit to who did it theres really nothing they can do.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:34 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • I wouldn't. If she was raped, being forced and bombarded with something like that will make her feel like being raped all over again.Talk to her, and if she doesn't want to talk about it than she doesn't have to. Let her call the shots.
    sarapurser

    Answer by sarapurser at 12:34 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • Yes you should. If not you should at least get her to a child or school psychologist that can get her to talk.
    MamaChamp

    Answer by MamaChamp at 12:34 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • Yes definitely. Take her to the ER, maybe she was raped and is embaressed. They can probably do a pelvic
    MicahsMom612

    Answer by MicahsMom612 at 12:35 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • And a FEMALE pediatrician is a good idea too. Someone should examine her.
    MamaChamp

    Answer by MamaChamp at 12:35 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • humm, let me think YES!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:35 AM on Mar. 11, 2009