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what is the best way to tell your B/F you are pregnant? do you think he will be mad?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:16 AM on Mar. 11, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • well first of all congrats.
    second of all -- take a breather. easier said than done but it'll help i swear.

    i think i'd sit him down.. maybe not like "we need to talk" kind of thing but maybe while you two are alone and not concentrating on other things ((dont try and tell him while he's playin his xbox or something lol))
    and just tell him. tell him how you feel. exactly how you feel. if you can be candid with him about your rawest emotions which, face it... pregnant women are KNOWN for... then he will feel better about the wave of emotions that will hit him. I mean, do you think it would make it better by waiting to tell him? i'd bet not.. i mean, its not like you can rewind time and undo what has been done. and i'm sure he knows that if you have unprotected sex .. heck even some protected sex.. there is ALWAYS the chance.

    tell him. be honest. and although he may get upset at first... dont write him off too quickly.
    GA_GiRL0920

    Answer by GA_GiRL0920 at 4:47 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • Ummm just tell him. How the hell are we supposed to know if he will be mad or not?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:20 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • well i was just asking about that mad part bcuz i am scared
    to tell him bcuz he gets pissed easy.

    i ment to put did ur babies dads get mad when you told them?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:27 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

  • If you are going to worry about him getting pissed over anything then you will have a very stressful llife and turn into a dishonest person that is always trying to remember the lie she told to keep bf from getting pissed. One day the lies will unwind so quickly that she will drown in her own web of lies. Tell him and be done. Who should get pissed over a baby? Maybe it wasn't in the immediate plans, but it's happened nothing to do now but be happy. Again if you are going to stress yourself always worrying about his reaction, move on with your life without him and find someone you can be completely honest with.
    mrssullivan

    Answer by mrssullivan at 4:12 AM on Mar. 11, 2009

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