She was 30y.o. and he 8 years her elder. They met through the internet. As honesty was of the essence, they both came up revealing as much as they could about themselves. He told her he 1) had contracted an STD years ago. By now he could tell when a breakout was going to take place and so was able to prevent infecting his partners, still he thought it was her right to decide whether or not to engage with someone affected by that. 2) He occasionally and for recreational purposes only did smoke pot, 3) he was not a professional/college educated man still he was and felt himself able to do well and be able to provide a stable environment for his future family. She chose to love him in despite of all that.
Asked by Anonymous at 5:11 PM on Mar. 11, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Braveheart09 at 5:13 PM on Mar. 11, 2009
Answer by Braveheart09 at 5:15 PM on Mar. 11, 2009
Answer by peppermintmocha at 5:35 PM on Mar. 11, 2009
Answer by Allie428 at 5:49 PM on Mar. 11, 2009
I def. think they should get some counseling. I also think that he should have not proposed or married her if he KNEW he would not be completely happy with someone he thought was "less than fit". It's unfair to his wife. Now that they are married, i think they should try really hard to work it out, not necessarily for the kids sake, but because they made a commitment and said vows to each other. And if it doesn't work, then it doesn't work. They both deserve to be in satisfying and happy relationships. She deserves to be with a man that loves her know matter her body type and he needs to find someone that matches his ideal body type, better.
Answer by nwdeserangel at 5:57 PM on Mar. 11, 2009
Answer by admckenzie at 6:02 PM on Mar. 11, 2009
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