My husband has been hangin out at the bar, using "It's work" excuse and yet; he does not get any money out of it. He's a karaoke host once a week and gets $40(if he doesn't drink it away that night).
PLUS, there is another woman who does it as well. This is a woman who'll call our home a 9 pm one night ask him to come out with her and MAYBE finish the night of "working" if she gets too drunk to finish it herself. I've seen the way they both act when I'm around and when I am not around. Two very different attitudes and he claims he's not the cheating type and would NEVER cheat on me. Tells me I am being ridiculous, immature and unreasonable that it is all in my head. One night we were out and she was at the bar we normally go. I went to smoke and looked into the window to see them chatting up a storm, being all close and laughing and joking....cont...
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 AM on Mar. 12, 2009 in Relationships
Wow, this relationship would make me very uncomfortable. And him trying to diminish your feelings would make me worry even more. I think it's suspicious that he's trying to say it's just you being immature (always make the SO think it's THEIR problem mentality). I say you have to trust your instincts, I know that every time I go against my gut instinct I regret it. I would just show up at their next show, stand in the background and see what happens. I hope it's not what you think.
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 11:10 AM on Mar. 12, 2009
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Answer by soonmommyof3 at 2:32 AM on Mar. 12, 2009
I would lean towards cheating but I wouldn't be sure about it. Being so uncomfortable with it should be enough though. You should be able to say I don't want you socializing with this woman in any way anymore and he should respect that. Your relationship should come before a relationship with a friend. If he doesnt want to let her go, then you should go.
I would also stop by the bar unannounced and unexpected after more than a couple drinks have been downed.
Answer by MamaChamp at 2:34 AM on Mar. 12, 2009
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