I have a stepdaughter that i love like my own. but since i have been with my husband I feel like her mother just uses me to watch her when she doent want to be bothered with her. When i was pregnant i had her all the time which was hard because i had three other kids to watch and my pregnancy was complicated. Now that i had the baby and her mother is pregnant I still feel like all she does is drop her on me. Myhusband works alot of hours and is not home to often so i am always with the kids. Her motheer only has her right now but she doesnt watch her i do .What should i do I feel like a bad step mother because I want her mother to keep her more often but i dont want to upset my husband. I feel used and trapped HELP
Maybe you and your husband should take her to court and try to get full custody. I know it stinks but it's better that she spends more time with you if this is the type of female role model she has. I go through this with our nieces. They are 2 and 3 and I have a son who's 2. When I have the girls, I am ready to rip my hair out with 3 toddlers. But then I look at their other female role model and I thank God they have us in their life. I would say either go to court and change the official arrangement to reflect what is actually going on or just be happy that she has you in her life.
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