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Why would BF hang around?

Me and my BF argue all the time, and don't have sex too often because of the arguing...so, why would he still want to date me?...why wouldn't he just move on?....btw, he is 10 years older than me....

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:42 PM on Mar. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (6)
  • because he loves you....try figure out why the two of you are argueing all of the time and if both of you want to be together then try and work it out...with relationships come give and take
    BBKMommy

    Answer by BBKMommy at 12:47 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • love maybe? do you love him? how long have you guys dated
    YObando

    Answer by YObando at 12:43 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • You should be asking that question of yourself - not him. What do you see in him. Why would you want to be with a guy that you argue with all the time. Is this relationship good enough for you.
    kathyartist2007

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 12:48 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • some ppl perceive arguing and fighting as you caring and translate that into thinking it's love. Also he may not have high self esteem and thinks he can't get anyone else. Maybe he's lazy and won't try to find out. If it's love it needs to be worked on.
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 12:50 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Sometimes people are in love. But you're looking around like whats to love??
    A lot of other times people are addicted and obsessed and can't imagine their
    life without the other person and therefor don't leave because they have a fear
    of change and life without the signififant other.
    It sounds like you have given up already on trying and you are just waiting
    for him to pick up and leave and don't feel bad giving him reasons to leave.
    You just can't do the breaking up?
    If he's 10 years older than you he probably sees you has his trophy and can't
    see himself happy with someone other than you even tho being with you isn't
    always happy. He's probably a bit insecure and doesn't want you with anyone
    else as well.
    If you don't want to be with him anymore than break it off, waiting for him to leave
    might end things on a worse note. Do whats best for you. If you want to stay together
    make things better for you both
    bronxcouture

    Answer by bronxcouture at 1:03 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Some people hang around because they are suckers for abuse. Love has nothing to do with common sense. Maybe he feels worthless, or that he can't get any better. Definitely low self esteem.

    Maybe he is waiting for you to leave him!


    SufiMajik

    Answer by SufiMajik at 1:09 PM on Mar. 12, 2009