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Why do men feel the need to lie about EVERYTHING????

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Asked by MaMa2_DJ_IJ at 1:18 PM on Mar. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • For the same reason women do. They don't want to get into trouble or they want to make their lives more interesting.

    Answer by BooBear666 at 1:20 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • There must be a story here......

    Answer by Wimsey at 1:21 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • i would like to know too. my husband lies about the stupidest things ever. like the other day he came into the bedroom before he left for work, he said he was getting a tshirt, but he really took my lighter. why did he have to lie about something so stupid. he could have just said im taking your lighter......its not a big deal...(we smoke cigarettes)

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:21 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Men don't need to lie about a single thing.
    When you find an honest quality man who is trustworthy,
    open, and gives you all his love you will realize it even more.
    Why are men always lying to you? Why do you allow it?
    Why do you feel as if you aren't worthy enough for the truth?
    I heard people say before that men only treat you how you allow them.
    Until I find a quality man, I want no part of someone who is half-ass
    because I'm an amazing person and I don't deserve less even tho
    I have settled for less before.
    You have to learn to love yourself before anyone else loves you.
    I really hope that either your man stops lying to you or you stop
    lying to yourself. Take care.

    Answer by bronxcouture at 1:21 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • bronxcoture.....You took the words right outta my mouth. I have made some poor choices to say the least in the past. I now am very happily married to the most honest and trustworthy man I have EVER met. He is my soul mate and I am his. I found him after learning to love myself and every little part about me.


    Answer by happyathomemum at 1:24 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • I feel the same way happathomemum, there are good men out there, I found mine... It is possible!!

    Answer by 4x4mum at 1:42 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • my x used to say to see if he could get away with it! In reading about personality disorders there seem to be a few that entail lying as a characteristic. There is one called Executive Function Disorder that kids get at an early age and you can expect them to grow up and be compulsive liars. Since many liars are also female I doubt if the Y gene and testosterone are to blame for the knack for lying.

    Answer by admckenzie at 1:43 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Not all men lie.

    Answer by munch12502 at 8:19 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

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