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MEN...tmi..kinda personal

what is up with men, why do they always want a bj...but don't wanna return the favor? I shouldn't have to ask should I? It would be different if he would get hard again after the bj...idk...it crazy...how often does your SO do "it" for you?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:07 PM on Mar. 12, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Never. *sigh*
    SandraB383

    Answer by SandraB383 at 2:12 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • If he isn't satisfying you afterwards then stop before he ejaculates and then finish off with intercourse that way you can both get yours. =)
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • would be nice if he actually lasted more than five minutes ^^^^^^^^^^^^^anon above

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:20 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Tell him you won't give him a BJ unless he does the same for you first.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:24 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • "Tell him you won't give him a BJ unless he does the same for you first. "


    That don't work either and it;'s not the same if I ahve to ask for it

    suhweet1

    Answer by suhweet1 at 2:26 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Cut him off and don't give him anymore " FAVORS". What's good for the goose SHOULD be good for the gander too!!! I'm so glad that I have a very attentive husband who is not selfish....makes for a good sex life. Some men have no idea how we tick.....if they are attentive to us, they get back 10 fold. They just have to put forth A LITTLE effort. FOOLISH MEN!!!
    foofoomommy

    Answer by foofoomommy at 2:36 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • "Tell him you won't give him a BJ unless he does the same for you first. "



    That don't work either and it;'s not the same if I ahve to ask for it


    Then cut him off and don't do it anymore. Simple. But honestly, men are not mind-readers. You have to tell them what you like. They can't figure it out if we don't tell them. Expecting him to just guess won't help.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Lol! My husband can be that way also. I've stopped doing it and he'll return the favor. Or what you can do is just sit on his face..lol
    azn_ladie82

    Answer by azn_ladie82 at 3:24 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • If my hubby wants sex, he better get me in the mood. I, almost, always "get mine first"!
    Stacey833

    Answer by Stacey833 at 3:44 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

  • Me TOO! But the first two years he always got his first, guess hes returning the favor!!!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:00 PM on Mar. 12, 2009

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