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so..yeah...

im the one that said i was really upset bc my bf and i were having problems and hes at a bar. well...he just called me WHILE at the bar and half drunk and decided to end it with me. isnt that a little suspicious? i even asked him if there was another girl. ahhhhh i know im killing myself thinking of what hes doing? but damn..this is so shitty :( *tear*

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Keeely07

Asked by Keeely07 at 12:28 AM on Mar. 13, 2009 in Relationships

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  • He ended it. Be hurt for awhile, then pump yourself up to how great life will be without him. Make it a point to do stuff that makes you happy, especially stuff you couldn't do with him. And if he's with someone else, let him be.
    mandaday

    Answer by mandaday at 12:30 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Do you even have children together?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Aw. That is horrible. Guys suck! Dont worry your self over it. You know how guys are.. he will be crawling back before you know it. But think twice before taking him back ~
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:31 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Well that is crappy of him. I am sorry you are going through this right now. Of course you want to know what he's doing thats natural. Everything you are feeling is natural.
    pnwmom

    Answer by pnwmom at 12:32 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • no we dont have any kids together. i have one from someone else tho. this just sucks big time :( i wuld feel better if he didnt do it the way he did.
    Keeely07

    Answer by Keeely07 at 12:37 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Guys suck seriously. Dont get sad over this. There are tons of men out there. Dont ever let a man make you feel that way. hes probably just drunk and isnt thinking straight anyways. been there done that!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:38 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • u don't have kids together, u already were suspicouse of him, he called u from a bar drunk, then broke it off because he has no gulls to do it while he's not drunk and is in front of u, COUNT UR BLESSINGS and move on and Please don't tell me u love him, this cycle will only repeat it self, u'll never be happy.

    by the way I don't know if ur used to this sort of relationship but there are good men out there, tere are good relationships don't give up intil u find one, don 't settle for less because men will only think u are worth less and will give u less.
    Happ-eToBme

    Answer by Happ-eToBme at 12:54 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • suspicious? He broke up with you. That isn't suspicious, that is CLEAR. Watch the movie He's Just Not that In To You
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:40 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Who cares you are the shit, you are the bomb.....who freaking cares, forget about the move he's not that into you and just think he NOT EVEN good enough for you!!!!
    What a loser, who does that. R you guys in High School because if you are not then real men dont dump you over the phone.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:44 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • haha no actually he is in college. hes 22. im 20.
    Keeely07

    Answer by Keeely07 at 2:05 AM on Mar. 13, 2009

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