When my bil became engaged, his fiance asked me to be a bridesmaid. I said yes, because my dh was the best man. The bride mentioned that she was on the knot so I went on there to see what it was all about. I noticed the boards on there and checked to see if I could find her. I did (she wasn't very anonymous, she used her real name). I checked the board she used and was stunned by what I read. She wrote horrible things about me and dh. She said that I wasn't helping her (I live on the west coast and she lives on the east coast). Everything she wrote on there was lies. It really hurt me to read her posts.
We went to the wedding and it was horrible. The bride and groom were so drunk they got kicked out of their own reception. They left and partied at a hotel with her parents until dawn. Not what I would call a romantic wedding night!
Did I do wrong by 'spying' on her on the internet - or not? Is it even 'spying'?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:50 AM on Mar. 13, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by ZaTa at 11:52 AM on Mar. 13, 2009
Answer by madamekatekate at 12:16 PM on Mar. 13, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 12:51 PM on Mar. 13, 2009
Answer by newmom10408 at 12:57 PM on Mar. 13, 2009
I'm not worried about it, maybe just feeling guilty.
I wish that I would have asked this question while I was doing it - I feel like I've been validated and I would have felt more comfortable confronting her. :)
Maybe someday the wedding conversation will come up and I'll have my chance to let her know that I read all her rude comments about me and dh.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:34 PM on Mar. 13, 2009