Join the Meeting Place for Moms!
Talk to other moms, share advice, and have fun!

(minimum 6 characters)

Is it my imagination, or has it shrunk?

My husband is 40 years old, which is 9 years older than me. He wonders why I don't have a ravenous sex drive and I wonder... has it shrunk? He commented that his penis seemed smaller, and I believe it is noticeably so when not erect. I assured him that when he got excited, it was still the same as always, but lately I am thinking I was wrong. Is it possible for it to shrink? How do I handle the situation? If it gets much smaller I will not get any gratification from sex at all. HELP!

Answer Question
 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:12 PM on Mar. 13, 2009 in Relationships

Answers (6)
  • Did he gain weight? You "lose" an inch for each 30 lbs you gain over what is "normal".
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Has he gained weight over the years? IF he has that pocket of fat right above his penis could've gotten larger causing his penis to appear smaller. seriously! My DH has thought the same thing and I read that online.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Anon 2:14- where can I find that information online? He did gain weight, but is blaming it on me, and our decline in sexual activity... but our decline in sexual activity is also due to his substantial weight gain. HELP!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:16 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • he's counting on sex to be all the exercise he needs to stay in shape? i hope you didn't buy that baloney he's feeding you....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:19 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • You'll have to google it. I can't find it, but I've read it more than once.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:20 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • http://www.penis-resources.com/blog/medical-conditions/concealed-penis-condition/ Here is a site talking about it, under the aging and obesity section. Don't think this is what I read but it says the same thing
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:23 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

Join CafeMom now to contribute your answer and become part of our community. It's free and takes just a minute.
close Cafemom Join now to connect to other members! Connect with Facebook or Sign Up Using Email

Already Joined? LOG IN