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Could you forgive a friend if you found out after your divorce that she slept with your husband?

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tinaandavasmom

Asked by tinaandavasmom at 3:03 PM on Mar. 13, 2009 in Relationships

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  • nope friends dont sleep with their friends husband
    SThompson21

    Answer by SThompson21 at 3:04 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Could I forgive her, yeah. Would I remain friends with her, no. I have to be able to trust my friends. Trust and forgiveness are 2 different things.

    momjoy1027

    Answer by momjoy1027 at 3:06 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • No way. No way in hell. Well...maybe if God worked with me. But $&%&^^^^&^%$%$%$$%#^^%##@*!!!
    MamaChamp

    Answer by MamaChamp at 3:07 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • no
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:12 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Actually I found out just before my divorce was final that a friend from way back when had been living with my husband for about 6 months. I forgave her, but we aren't really friends today. She can have him but it would have been better if she had waited until we were divorced.
    heratyc

    Answer by heratyc at 3:13 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • no way.... how could i trust her with any future guy i wanted to date/marry....
    MommaTasha1003

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 3:16 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • She is no longer a friend.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 3:21 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • Forgive? Yes
    Forget? No
    Alizzie_Mom

    Answer by Alizzie_Mom at 3:26 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • oh wow, that's an excellent question. When I was younger I probably would not have but knowing what I know about forgiveness now I probably would but like alizziemom said, I'd not forget. I'd have to take a long time to work through it too! (possibly have a stroke and ulcer and coronary but I'd eventually get to forgiveness)
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 3:40 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

  • (possibly have a stroke and ulcer and coronary but I'd eventually get to forgiveness)
    I agree admckenzie...she wouldn't be a friend anymore.
    ria7

    Answer by ria7 at 3:49 PM on Mar. 13, 2009

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