I was just checking my 15 yr. olds browsing history and discovered a nasty and utterly shocking porn sight he had went to!!! I have always trusted him and this is a first for me!! I've allready changed all of the parental settings to "strict" . My husband and I are not doing well at all and he has been dicussing our relationship alot with him wich I completley disagree with. I think my son is thinking he's all grown up if dad talks to him about such personal and adult matters. He has been very disrespectful and refuses to keep his nose out of our personal buisness. I am constantly being ganged up on by the two of them. In fact, me and my husband were actually getting along the other night and my son started this huge fight with me calling me names and everything. I told him please don't start your dad and I are actually getting along and laughing, Well my husband , actually denied it! How do I talk to him about all this?Answer Question
I think you all should get into family counseling. I know some people on here are going to say it's nothing, but porn CAN cause problems....it doesn't always, but it can. At one point, it nearly destroyed my husband and my marriage....and it started when he was a teen. But even if there was no porn, I'd still say you all should be seeing a family counselor if you want things to work. Sounds like you guys need some help. Good luck.
Answer by Anonymous at 4:56 PM on Mar. 13, 2009
Sound to me you need to talk to your DH first..Try to get him to understand that bringing your son into your marital problems(by talk to him about adult issues) is doing harm to the whole family. Then you both can talk to your son together. If you and your DH are not together about this.Trying to straighten out your son will not work. Your son has picked a side..It's your DH's side not yours. That's why he is treating you badly.
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