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what would you do? my man didnt come home

the first time my man didnt come home he said he got drunk and passed out on his buddys floor. that was dec 26th. i forgave him. now it is march 14th and he went 2 house up to another buddys house to hang out(really close to where we live) and he didnt come home yet and its 330am. i am almost postive he wont be coming home again. what would you do or say?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 3:30 AM on Mar. 14, 2009 in Relationships

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  • i wouldn't be with a person like that! and i would say "youre already a grown man, married with children, you shouldnt be thinking about partying and drinking with friends anymore, grow up! or i'll leave your sorry white ass! does he even work?
    kimaam

    Answer by kimaam at 3:34 AM on Mar. 14, 2009

  • I would tell him that it's time to talk. And express to him how you feel. ...that's all you really can do. dont turn it into an argument. try to start almost all the sentances with "i feel ..." so that you're not accusing him of anything. You just need to express yourself to him, and if he cares about how you feel, he'll try to fix it on his own.
    outstandingLove

    Answer by outstandingLove at 3:32 AM on Mar. 14, 2009

  • i totally agree with kimaam!!!

    If he is married with children... what the heck is he doing hanging out at his buddy's house all night? If he were a single man, this would be fine. but he has responsibilities! I dont mind if he hangs out with him, but to get so wasted that he passes out or doesnt come home... no way. And the least he could do, if he does feel to drunk to drive home, is call you.

    He needs to show some respect for your marriage, and thats awful to keep you worring all night long.

    You need to put your foot done on that one hunny... that's just ridiculuos!
    alleykatt28

    Answer by alleykatt28 at 3:45 AM on Mar. 14, 2009

  • we are not maried. just living together. and we have talked about him not being able to do this cause he has a family and responsiblities. we just talked to night right before he went out and he said he was going to work on not going out whenever he felt like it. he works full time and goes to school 2 nights a week the goes to a friends at least 1-2 nights a week. but then bitches when i make plans to go out and says what the f!@# what if i wanted to go out? my friends dont make plans til the last minute. so i dont end up going out. we are rocky as it is and i feel like i am just letting him get away with it. i dont know anymore
    michellem7781

    Answer by michellem7781 at 3:57 AM on Mar. 14, 2009