so I am here tonight to pose some questions to you ladies..here's a bit of the back story. I've been divorced for ovr 18 mo a yr ago I started dating. I have been with 12 men in 12 months. It sounds like alot but honestly I don't feel like I was that busy. My sister of course had bunch of lovely words for me...slutty, trampy. but I ask if I was a guy would those same names still apply? My ex husbnd was my first....I M an extremely confident woman who loves sex and mkes sure I am careful and safe. Can't I enjoy myself too without being labeled? or am i supposed find that one person to settle for again?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Mar. 14, 2009 in Relationships
Do what you want because you'll never please everyone. Here's the bottom line...yes it's more acceptable for men to be sluts. The bad part about about having sex with every guy that comes along is you may find that you like this about that one and that about that one and so forth and when you do find that "right" guy you may not be sexually satisfied with "just one man". Another thing is men want a woman that respects herself, so don't give it up so easy and you'll find a man worth loving.
Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:54 PM on Mar. 14, 2009
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Answer by legalmommy101 at 11:59 PM on Mar. 14, 2009
I'm certainly not going to judge you, I'm just glad you take precautions. I think only you know for certain if you are just having some post divorce fun or if you are being driven by low-self esteem, or unresolved issues, & what-not. Even if you didn't feel like there was anything to your sexual history other than dating and having fun I would listen to your sister IF (AND ONLY IF) she came to you with sincere concern for you and your well being...but it doesn't quite sound like that's what happened it sounds like she met you with judgement and criticism. But, like I said originally, only you know for sure. GL!
Answer by BubbaLuva at 12:00 AM on Mar. 15, 2009
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