For me it works. I feel like when I am nice about everyone being in my business, I just get tramped on more. People don't just give me their opinions, they tell me what to do. When I "should" have more kids, what birth control I "need" to be on...
If I want to use condoms til I want to get fixed, then I will. I trust the doctors when they say I am having too much trouble. If I want to wait til he's 10 to have #2, that's up to us. It came to the point where I practically had to scream at everyone, telling them it's called Free Will and I DO have it. It's not like I am screwing up my life at all. I'm content and on track.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:02 AM on Mar. 15, 2009 in Relationships
Unfortunately, yes sometimes I think you do have to be a bit of a bitch. Like My MIL always says "people will take your kindness for weakness", and I've found that often to be very true. Because, I've tried being nice, I've tried ignoring, I've tried being assertive but, the only thing that seems to get through to some people is when I'm being a straight up bitch. Don't feel bad, your right it's YOUR life. People should mind thier own business!
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