Married 25 years. Husband works long hours 6 days a week. It has been 4 months since we have had sex. He has had several affairs and cyber sex in our marriage. Is there no sex here due to work,age, or lack of desire for me? I no longer pursue him or try to seduce him. I have tried on 2 different occasions to discuss our lack of sex and how I don't like it.That this should be a decision the two of us should make as a couple..If not we needed to get help whether it be medical or counseling..I never get a comment...just a deer in the headlight look!! I'm done talking to the old fool..I just stopped touching him and take care of my own needs. Any suggestions for the 50 year old fool?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:44 PM on Mar. 15, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by kemclaughlin at 3:15 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
" he has had several affairs and cyber sex in our marriage"
Not to be rude but, then why are you with him? If my husband ever cheated on me i would be gone in a heartbeat.... without a second thought. Maybe his lack of interest in sex with you is because he is getting it somewhere else. once a cheater always a cheater. I am genuinely sorry for your situation and i hope that it works out for you!
Answer by Anonymous at 3:23 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
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Answer by NannyB. at 4:04 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
I'm with anon 3:23. Perhaps his lack of sex is because he's getting his needs met elsewhere. Or there could be a health problem (blood pressure or diabetes) that are causing ED. If he's not willing to get help and work with you, I don't know what you can do! Just express that you love him and that you have needs. Maybe that will open the door.
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 7:07 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
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