I recently went to the hospital and had surgery. My sil who lives next door did not come to see me. She only called. When she got her nose job we sent her flowers and now she not only did not send anything , I don't care but she never came to see me. Mind you we are only a few feet away. How shold I treat her from now on?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:49 PM on Mar. 15, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Double.L at 7:39 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
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Answer by apattinson at 5:06 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
Answer by dragonfly7271 at 5:30 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:34 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
I think you should let it go. You are recovering from surgery (and with all reason to be)may be a bit emotional. She called to check on you which is a nice thing to do. Yes you went above and beyond by sending gifts but a gift is something you give without expecting anything in return. This lady is your SIL so you will have her in your life for a very long time. What good is it to start a tiff over how grand her gesture was (or wasnt) towards you after surgery? I think if it is your nature to be a kind person and treat her a little better than she treats you, then you should stick with that.. who knows.. it may rub off on her. Feel better soon!
Answer by Tzutchka at 7:09 PM on Mar. 15, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:59 PM on Mar. 15, 2009