Its the same old pathetic story. My husband is fabulous in every way possible until he turns into a verbally abuse monster when we fight. It's my own fault for staying with him through all his vows to change, I'm an idiot, I get it, but now here I am with 2 kids and a home and a life we share. I can't just leave. Anyone else in my spot? Any advice?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:13 AM on Mar. 16, 2009 in Relationships
I am in the same situation. Every person will say oh you need to get out right now, leave his ass, I wouldn't ever let no man treat me that way... etc. But the truth be told, if they weren't ever in a situation like this, then how can they tell us to leave so eagerly? It is much easier said than done! I have left many times on different occasions. But I am always longing to be with him. I love my husband, just not the way he treats me from time to time. I'm not the best with words though myself when we argue. So it can't all be to blame on my husband. I know that I am in the wrong as well! I can't really give you advice, I truly wish I could. But I can't, I live with this all the time, even though I know that it is wrong, I love my husband dearly.. and I can't live without him!
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