My husben and I are scared that our son will forget about him while he is gon in Iraq. I know I'll show him pictures and recordings of daddy. But what if thats not enough. And I'm also scared that what if my son sees me crying about my husbend being gon. would he get confused about why i'm crying over daddy? what if he thinks daddy hurt me? or if daddy abandond us? Eventhough he didnt. What should I do to make this deployment easyer on our son? I'm really scared about this. I never really thought about it untill my hubby had to leave for a 3 wk training course. oh btw my son is 9 months old 10 months on the 22nd. a year old in may. hubby should leave in October and be back October of 2010 so my son will be over 2 years old when daddy returns. What if he's scared of daddy when he gets back? ugh i got a million questions.
please pray for us! (or whatever it is that you do i.e. light candles, send vibes etc)
you mentioned recording....like video? Have him make a few, some even holding your son and playing with him. Let your son watch them everyday. Or at least a couple of times a week. Even if he's not seated with full attention on them (since he's still so young), just having his father's voice in the background would probably be good. I'm sorry I can't be of more help. Thank you and your husband for his service.
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