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guys useing girls for sex

how do you know when a guy is useing a girl just for sex??

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:55 AM on Mar. 17, 2009 in Relationships

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  • if you refuse to have sex with them and their interest wains thats a pretty good indicator.

    Answer by Amelora at 4:04 AM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • I agree with the poster above also if thats all you guys do when your together and never anything else

    Answer by JAJA_Steele at 4:08 AM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • If he stops calling after the 5th date in which "nothing" happens!

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 AM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • If he isn't willing to wait until you are ready, that's a huge sign. If he is always trying to change your mind about waiting to have sex is a huge one too. If the woman is willing to sleep with him right off the bat, she can't really get upset that he is using her for sex. So if she waits and makes him wait, then she should see some huge red flags if he isn't genuine.

    Answer by DDry at 10:00 AM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • If the only time he sees you it leads to sex, and little else, if he won't go out of the way to help you out, if he seems to want to go after sex, or after waking up the next morning with little to no conversation.. or if he seems to be hiding something..
    also see above PP's answers.

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 10:11 AM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • You don't have sex with him until you are ready which might be several months into the relationship. If he sticks around, there's a good chance he's with you because he really likes you.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 11:16 AM on Mar. 17, 2009

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