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How early does sex start to work

Ok im about 32 weeks and im so tried of being pregnant,my doctor says baby can survivie outside the womb now ,so how early do you guys think sex(sperm )start to help move things along,also does anyone have any advice on moving in the trid trimster and how i should go about switching doctors it seems like no one will see me this late in the pregnancy.

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Asked by MrsE.G at 12:40 PM on Mar. 17, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • lol you sound like me, when i was 32 weeks i told my midwife i was done and wanted to be induced then at 34 weeks i went apeshit crazy and at 36 i went REALLY crazy and was induced at 38 weeks... then i was mad that i couldnt put him back in LOL

    Answer by aliciatron at 12:45 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • First and for most your baby will have to stay in the NICU, may have developmental delays and many other things that preemies are at risk for. I know your tired but it is absolutely unacceptable to induce labor this early.

    As far ass sex helping?? NO it will not help because your body is NOT ready!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:45 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • do not try to get this baby here early. Yes it could probably survive outside the womb but that is with breathing problems and no telling how long it would be hospitalized. And besides sex only softens things up so when you have contractions it will go faster. And that is in theory. Would you rather spend all day in the nicu with a sick baby. That and this early it probably wouldnt have the sucking reflex so it would be fed with a tube down it's throat. Quit being selfish, pregnancy wont kill you!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:45 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • im 35 weeks and im sick of being pregnant to iv been trying to induce it with sex for the past 2 weeks and its not working so im just going to have to wait tell the baby is ready

    Answer by Lacrisha at 12:48 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • Your baby has a CHANCE of living outside of the womb. It's likely but not a guarentee. Your baby will require excellant medical care in order to be able to survive. It would be very dificult to breastfeed because while your baby's sucking reflex is already developed his mouth will be very small making it very difficult.

    Also your baby's lungs and brain are still developing. Pregnancy last 37-42 weeks for a reason.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:50 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • It's the combination of the man and woman's orgasm that helps to ripen the cervix A man can't just have an orgasm or it won't work. How do I know you ask? My GF who was 12 days over due tried it for a week before she had a c-section on 3/8. The nurse told her!

    Answer by busybee68 at 12:57 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • i agree.ive been in the NICU with babies born at 32 weeks or so and they were very tiny..and they were fed through a tube since their mothers breast was too big for them,.and they had breathing difficulties,.they needed warmth.etc,so inducing labor by anything right now would be stupid.pregnancy needs to lat 9 months for a reason.

    Answer by naturepeace at 12:58 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • Actually busybee68 that nurse was sorely misinformed.

    There is a hormone is seamen that helps to ripen the cervix. Orgasim would just help to ripen the uterus by causing uterine contractions.

    Either way it's way to early. You need to think about your baby right now and wait it out.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:02 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • Yay prostoglandins... But like the others said, it is still too early and they wont do diddly squat until your baby and body are ready.

    Busybee68, it is true that the female and male orgasms work together but either one on their own work too. The prostoglandins from the semen soften the cervix (as anon 1:02 pointed out) and the contractions of the uterus during the female orgasm can help promote labor contractions as well as the ocytocin (feel good hormone) your body releases which is the natrual form of the pitocin the docs use to induce you with...

    Again nothing will work til the baby/your body is ready. DO NOT TRY TO INDUCE THIS EARLY.. It is VERY UNSAFE and SELFISH

    Answer by MarchMarie at 1:16 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • why do you want to switch doctors? Because they won't induce you? It's only 8 more weeks until 40've lasted this long a few more weeks won't for sex really helping move thigns along i don't put too much belief behind that. It may work for some women..but who knows...I feel 32 weeks is too early to deliver unless it is an absolute necessity...think about your baby and it's future...

    Answer by ThinkPink23 at 1:51 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

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