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does this seem weird to you???

ok long story short. i was really good friends with this girl (friend #1) and we ended up being good friends with someone else (friend #2) me and f#1 kind of had a falling out but still talk...all of a sudden i've been replaced! (at least that's what it feels like) both ladies hardly ever talk to me anymore but sure enough they are ALWAYS together! in fact...f#2 and her family are going to sea world for spring break and i just found out that they invited f#1 and her family to go with them!! did i get invited NOPE!! i didn't talk to f#2 at all last week. i called several times but no answer and she never called me back!!

why should i make an effort to stay in touch and all that jazz if neither one of them do!?!? am i just looking into this too much or what!?!? i don't know what to do.

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:06 PM on Mar. 17, 2009 in Relationships

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  • These ladies dont sound like they are interested in having a friendship with you. I would find new friends and move on.

    Answer by hypersquirrel at 1:12 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • Hmm thats an interesting predicament. It does seem to look like friend #2 is ignoring you. It may seem that friend #2 gets along better with friend #1. Maybe when they get back you can try to arraange a get together between the three of ya'll. To help sort it out. Let them know that you feel left out of the loop.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:15 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • No, I don't think your reading in to it too much. I was really close to someone and they kinda started the same thing with me, however she talks to her long time friend and I know from my space she told me. Unfortunatley, the last time I spoke to her is when she was told my mother died she called me, and I kinda rushed her off the phone, I felt betrayed, and hurt. We just grew apart. True friends never split and as for her, my door is always open, you just grow apart-you will have more friends. Let it go, I know it hurts but if she is a real friend, she didn't go far. :)

    Answer by KFree907 at 1:18 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • ive had this happend before introduced 2 of MY friends to eachother and they ended becoming BFF's and barely ever talking to me lol i just stopped calling them, hanging out with other people. they both ended up coming back. just give em time :)

    Answer by sarrrr13 at 1:18 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

  • all these are great but my biggest problem is we are all in the same bunco group!! she i can't forget them. i'm a stay at home mom so i don't get to get out of the house very often!! my husband and i have tried to get other friends...but it's like we're the outcasts or something. when we're all together we all get along great but whne we're not's just weird!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:29 PM on Mar. 17, 2009

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