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Do you make your husband use condoms?

Infidelities happen all the time who's responsibility is it to keep you healthy (ie. sans STIs)?

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WhataLife856

Asked by WhataLife856 at 8:22 AM on Mar. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • No we haven't ever used condoms
    efmeador0709

    Answer by efmeador0709 at 8:29 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • I make my husband wear a condom if i forget to use my birth control so I won't get pregnant yet but not for worry of STD's. He doesn't mind we don't want another little one for a few more months.
    jnsdrf

    Answer by jnsdrf at 8:30 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • my husband had a vasectomy.we have been married for 26 yrs so were beyond that.i think when we first got married the only person he would have an affair with was his mother.
    snowmom974

    Answer by snowmom974 at 8:35 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • I make my husband use a condom for birth control reasons. i am breast feeding and not taking other form of bc.
    Jordanlover05

    Answer by Jordanlover05 at 8:40 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • When we didn't want another one yes I made him wear one. Shuda made the sob get them himself. After our third I had my tubes tied. I didn't trust him to get a vas.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:52 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • I don't have to MAKE him, he just does. I'm not worried about any STDs, we just aren't ready for baby #3 yet.

    Navymama

    Answer by Navymama at 9:18 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • No we don't. He had a vasectomy so BC is no longer an issue. I have never worried about std's. Its just not an issue.
    momofsaee

    Answer by momofsaee at 9:26 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • No, he doesn't wear one - never has with me. I take birth control and we know each other's sexual history. We were tested also and I am not at all worried about him cheating. So I am not worried about an STD.
    DDry

    Answer by DDry at 9:47 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • no i dont make him i use birth control and we are really for baby number 2 just not the right time! not worried about STD we have olny one for eachother!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:03 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • No I don't. Sure, infidelity can happen but I wont accuse him of being a cheater and force him to wear condoms out of an irrational fear. We hate those things. : /
    celticreverie

    Answer by celticreverie at 10:08 AM on Mar. 18, 2009

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