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marriage help!

I have been married for almost 5 years. I got married when i was 19, and too soon, i know. but i loved him/love him. Hes my husband and the father of my children. But theres someone else. Years ago, when i was 17, i met my best friend, and love of my life online. we've never touched, we've never seen each other in person, and we've never kissed, or anything. But i loved him with my entire soul. When my husband came along, i was so lonely, and he loved me so good that i made the decision to marry him because i fell in love with him. But lately, everything is horrible. ther have been times a couple years ago when he got physical, hes bipolar1 and he gets violent if hes not on medication. He doesnt do that now, but now, if things get rough, and i get upset and we get into a fight, he just says hes going to do something, like go get something to eat, and he disappears. Most of our time is spent fighting. today is the first time he

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:19 PM on Mar. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Honestly, I think i'd leave if it were possible. If it's not possible now, make it happen.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:35 PM on Mar. 23, 2009

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