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Most of our time is spent fighting. today is the first time he has actually done things around the house. i have a full time job and he doesnt work. OK...anyway, this check up on him every once in a while, just check out his webpage every so often. Well, i saw a few weeks ago that he had gotten married in february of 2007. so i dropped him a line to tell him congrats. But what i didnt expect happened. he emailed me back, and i tried to be a friend. after all, he is the closest friend i've ever had. well, we swapped numbers, and started talking every once in a while. Now we talk almost everyday. We got started talking about our marriages and about how we are both pretty much miserable, and if only we had done what it seems was our destiny, we would be together, and happy.

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:30 PM on Mar. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You have this person built up in your mind to be some kind of fantasy. Reality is that you are both married to other people and that is where you should be focusing your attention. Stop communicating with this other guy and recommit yourself to your marriage. The truth is that guy could never live up to what you have him fantisized to be. You CAN CHOOSE to be happy with your husband, but things will never get better as long as you are indulging these "woe is me" thoughts!


    Answer by Anonymous at 10:34 PM on Mar. 18, 2009

  • do you want to save your marriage? or end it?

    Answer by aly38914290 at 10:35 PM on Mar. 18, 2009

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