you can start pumping and every day pump about 3 min less than before, either way it will hurt you a little, but just think you gave birth, you can do this. As to her waking up at night at 9 months old she should not be doing that. In the evenings get her ready on a schedule for bed, bath, calm story or in a rocking chair, feeding her a big bottle w some cereal in it. so she has enough to keep her thru the night, if she falls asleep before the bottle is empty try to gently tap her, and wake her up so you can feed her more, kind of force her to drink alot, so itll keep her fuller, the first few nights she might whine, you can go in, change her diaper if you want, but dont pick her up or feed her. let her whine herself back to sleep, sometime theill cry or scream cause their used to eating, but dont give in, she wont die and shes not in pain. after a week you should be good to go!
at 12:30 AM on Mar. 19, 2009