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US births break record; 40 pct out-of-wedlock
W H Y ???

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Asked by sweet-a-kins at 12:17 AM on Mar. 19, 2009 in Politics & Current Events

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  • people dont know how to take a pill or use a condom apparently. lol im kidding im engaged and pregnant. sometimes people want children even if it means they arnt married at that moment. it doesnt make a difference IMO unless it was an "accidental" pregnancy

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:19 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • soon it will be 100% who gives a shit!

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:19 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • what does a marriage mean these days anyway, as long as the child is loved and taken care of properly i dont think it should matter if the person is married or not.

    Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 12:19 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • Why what?

    Answer by munch12502 at 12:21 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • Different values, lack of values, and/or accidents, lol. My and my husbands parents had us out of wedlock and we really wanted to change that. We thought it was very important to establish a marital foundation because WE felt that it would give our kids the best parental foundation. DH went without a good father, and although my parents eventually married, they are now separated because they basically got married for me.
    I'm sure there are really lots of reasons why. But everyone's reason is so different.

    Answer by MamaChamp at 12:25 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • Ummm.. Seriously it is a concern for all of us. Look at it this way.. wouldn't you rather be in a committed relationship and know that there are going to be two parents carrying for the child you are brining into this world, rather than just getting pregnant and not being concerned about the consequence. Sad, but true... Both girls and women are not trying to get a man to marry them, they are trying to have his baby... why? Because it's what all the celebrities are doing... It's actually more like trying to trap a man, which is alot worse and chances are he will walk...

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:33 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • anon :33 yea he will walk but he will PAY for it. its sad that the man gets the crappy end ecspecially if she was "trying" to get preg without him knowing. as for accidents well its both of their faults.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:35 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • ummm you care y?????

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • Happens all the time. Sometime pills, condoms, and diaphragms don't always work. Sometimes it's just meant to be. As long as the baby is loved, other things can be looked over

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:06 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • sad..babies need a home..a mom and a dad...Choose a mate wisely, treat them kindly

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:23 AM on Mar. 19, 2009

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