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Is it me or is everyone too busy being judgMENTAL?

I like the judgMENTAL thing- got it from an anon- LOL! Anyway, is it me or is there women on here that have nothing better to do than pick on people for their weight and color? People are SO judgMENTAL! You should not pick on those who are overweight or have a different skin color than you...this is horrible and indecent! Women who make personal attacks take a piece of the victim's magnifigance and you cannot EVER give that back. What gives YOU the right to take something so sacred and personal from someone, whether you do it on the computer or in person?! You do more damage than you could EVER know to those you attack. Teenagers have committed suicide over their sacred magnifigance being taken from them on the internet, just so YOU can have a swift and glorious short moment for yourself to make YOURSELF feel like YOU are better than the poor souls YOU offend! Why would you do this?!?!?Why are you so vindictive and cold? Why?

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Asked by environmentalpa at 12:22 PM on Mar. 19, 2009 in Relationships

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  • wow...I missed

    Answer by abbynzachsmommy at 12:24 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • I agree....women are the worst. Do we have to put people down instead of building eachother up?? Its always a catty competition.

    Answer by ria7 at 12:25 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • Someone put up an anon post asking why is it only the fat people who say they bust their a** off, because if that was true, then why are they still fat? It's been deleted. AND there is another post that is accusing Cafe Mom of being predjudice, because there is NO black people on Cafe Mom...clearly trying to start something, because there is PLENTY of evidence of AA's on here if she even bothered to look.

    Answer by environmentalpa at 12:28 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • no, people are just jerks... if their life is crap, or their jealous about something, then they will do put you down to make themselfs better. all in all they end up the ones worn out and ugly.

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:28 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • It is only way some people can assert their superiority. Many people use putting others down as a way to build themselves up. The internet is the easiest place for personal attacks. There is a smaller chance of confrontation. ria7 has a very good point. Women are in constant competition: Who has the best husband, the smartest kids, the hottest body... It's just a fact of life. There will always be someone who feels the need to put others down. That person usually has low self-esteem or personal demons that make them feel inferior. By judging the lives of others, a person doesn't have to look at their own life and their own faults. It's easier that way.

    Answer by nowhinning at 12:33 PM on Mar. 19, 2009


    Answer by Anonymous at 12:34 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • I do not spell words incorrectly alot, but that's a ridiculous reason to attack someone...try to gently correct them. Just PM them and tell them you'd like to help them by giving the correct spelling- why attack them?

    Answer by environmentalpa at 12:39 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • or you could not correct them at all! that would be more prudent... Don't you think?

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 12:42 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • The person who posted all of that was just a troll plain and simple.

    Answer by legalmommy101 at 12:46 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

  • legalmommy101, I agree, but it's just not right for them to do it.

    Answer by environmentalpa at 12:51 PM on Mar. 19, 2009

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