We have 3 kids and we would like 1 more. We could afford it with our income now. I work nights and I work every weekend. I never get to do things with my family, and I go to bed at 5 pm, when my dh gets home from work. Since we don't spend much time together as a family, would it be irresponsible to have more??? If we didn't have any more kids, I should be able to cut back on my hours, so I would have every other Saturday off. This is really weighing heavily on us. We would want the next one soon, because when all the kids are in school, I will be able to sleep more while they are at school. Then I could participate in more after school activities, because I wouldn't have to go to sleep as soon as dh gets home. I was off last night, but I'm on tonight. So as soon as DH is home, I have to go to bed :( What do you ladies think?Answer Question
Answer by Bmat at 5:59 PM on Mar. 19, 2009
Answer by pagirl71 at 6:02 PM on Mar. 19, 2009
Even though health care and education are important matters to think about, the kids you have now don't care about that at the moment. All they know is mommy isn't having fun with us or doing things with us as a family. Having another child is fine as long as everyone Else isn't being forgotten in the process. I wish you luck as you make this decision.
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