im about 6 wks pregnant and I never ever been the other woman and the guy iam with was sperated from his other baby momma, now that I found out I'm pregnant I do not know which way is up anymore, We still talk but the things between us aren't right anymore, He hasnt completely left the other woman and his excuse is the kids yet he refuses to give me up also and I stupidly refuse to let him go too, what would you do if you were me. and if your going to be negative please just don't answer Cuz Yes I know whats going down is wrong. But now I have a life to think of and he should be part of our childs life like he and I want. So How do we either end this affair or fix this mess We both lead our-selfs in?
Answer by Anonymous at 2:06 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by Mel.Ann.Choly at 6:16 AM on Mar. 20, 2009
Honestly, I would leave him. I know it is hard to do especially since you are pregnant now but he is not going to leave his wife/girlfriend because he would have by now. Besides, even if he does leave her and goes to you, what makes you think he won't have another affair with someone else. I think it would be best for you and the baby to just forget about him. If he wants visitation rights then great! When the time comes arrange something that works out for the both of you, but chances are if his wife/girlfriend doesn't know about you then I doubt he is going to tell her now and he definitely will not be telling her about his other child. Good luck in whatever you decide and I wish you the best for you and your children.
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