I caught my husband cheating maybe a 2 months ago and we have been going to Marriage Counseling to try and work out Affair and our Relationship. He recently revealed to me that he wants to moce back in but i don't know how i really feel about.
Should let him move back home with me and the kids? or Should tell him its best if he stays away for awhile??
I do miss and love him, but i'm confused on what i should do.
Answer by mommykayti at 1:21 PM on Mar. 31, 2009
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Answer by tabbys4 at 3:30 PM on Mar. 20, 2009
I don't think that's something we can answer for you. This happened to me also, and I did end up moving back in with my husband. I though I was doing what was best for me (we didn't have children at the time). In the end, I realized that he had not quit cheating on me. I was even more hurt the second time. I was also mad that I allowed myself to be hurt again (even though it was not my fault he cheated). We are now divorced and he is living with another woman (and I've found out through his mom that he is even cheating on this new woman).
Make sure you can trust him before you allow him to move back in with you because it only hurts worse the second time. I would continue marriage counseling if you continue your marriage.
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