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When a guy says its not the baby its because ur blasian hes makin excuses rite??

i tlked with my ex and he said he doesn't refuse to be with the baby because its so sudden he refuses because of me and how i wasn't his perfect girl he said its because im a blasian[black nd asian] and hes mixed[mexican and white] the baby will be confused bout its race or something like dat. isn't he stupid cuz dat really means nuthin.

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lanlan

Asked by lanlan at 7:18 PM on Mar. 20, 2009 in Relationships

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  • hes making excuses so he doesnt have to take care of his child. move on get child support and loose him he sounds like a real looser if you ask me.
    Jaxsmommy09

    Answer by Jaxsmommy09 at 7:19 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • sounds like an excuse to me. and a stupid excuse at that!
    Amanduhpanda

    Answer by Amanduhpanda at 7:19 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • that would really bother me too, i say he's just making up excuses.
    americansugar80

    Answer by americansugar80 at 7:20 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • uhh. i'd rethink the kind of guys you are into.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:30 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • Excuses. You were good enough to have sex with obviosly. Nail him for child support.
    Ibelongtojesus

    Answer by Ibelongtojesus at 7:34 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • yes he is stupid. Find a man with a brain and one who has feelings for you and your child.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:42 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • Im sorry I speak english and was unable to read your post.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:53 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • Who Yo Baby Daddy Be?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 7:54 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • My ex tried to say my son was not his because his skin was not as brown as his(he is Mexican), well my genes had a part in it too. I happened to be very pale. He was just dodging responsibility as long as he could until I nailed him with the dna test I so badly wanted to smear in his face!
    Steff107

    Answer by Steff107 at 8:20 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

  • smack him
    moki1984

    Answer by moki1984 at 8:57 PM on Mar. 20, 2009

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