You need to seriously think about getting away from him. There is no evidence that he cares about you--not in what you have told us about him. Honestly, a man who cares about his family is not always trying to hook up with someone else. I really encourage you to separate yourself from him today and also consider putting your baby up for adoption so that it will have the benefit of a stable, two-parent family. Anyone can have sex and make a baby, but it takes special people to be parents. It also takes commitment, which is obviously lacking in the man that you chose to be the father of your child. With now 40% of the children born being illegitimate, it's time to turn this thing around and get serious about parenting the children that we are bringing into this world. This situation that you are in is not going to get any better. In fact, you can count on it getting worse if you choose to stay in it. Leave now!
at 1:59 PM on Mar. 21, 2009