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my husband never wants to have sex he only wants head.... if i try to get him to have sex hes not into it or adventurous, he either wants it me on top or missionary, once in a great while doggy style.... what can i do?


Asked by Anonymous at 3:18 PM on Mar. 21, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (15)
  • Yeah he is not being fair to you as far as pleasuring you. Is he the type that has sex and rolls over to sleep? Oh hell no you better get yours girl.

    You need to tell him what the hell is going on he better please or you are not giving him any more pleasures thats, that.

    He is being way too selfish yes he might be pleasuring you in those positions but do you get to have an orgasm? If not you better do something it is only going to get worse.
    This is suppose to be a mutual thing...He ll O!

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 3:30 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • I thought he only wants head? maybe those positions is what feels best to him.... If he dosent want to please you... then dont' please him... there is a thing called a vibrator..... maybe then he will rethink not being a man and giving his wife what she needs.

    Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:20 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • Maybe you should try being adventurous first than maybe he will pick up. You should stop giving him head to for a while until your sex life gets back to normal. Good luck

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:21 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • It sounds a bit selfish to me. Have you asked why he only want head and certain positions? His answer might help you find your answer.

    Answer by Tawanda74 at 3:23 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • he does only want head but if i whine enough we'll have sex... i have asked him he said 'it takes too much effort'

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:31 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • i've never had an orgasm vaginally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • Then you need to stop giving any effort towards him. NO MORE HEAD! If you don't get yours then he don't get his. That is ridiculous. Tell him most men would find not satifiying their SO embarassing and not "manly".

    Answer by Tawanda74 at 3:34 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • Stop giving him what he wants.

    If he cant compromise then why should you?

    Answer by BonesDragonDew at 3:59 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • What other positions do you want, I mean it sounds like he's got most of them covered.

    Answer by SheriSanchez at 4:19 PM on Mar. 21, 2009

  • There plenty of other positions but the point is if I understand her correctly is that he doesn't want to do ven those few unless she "whines" for sex because he doesn't want to put forth any effort. That is selfish.

    Answer by Tawanda74 at 4:26 PM on Mar. 21, 2009