Sooo here is the back story, DD's sperm donor doesn't see her very much at all. Well his gf and I have had tons of drama, she has lied to me concerning Sperm donor, among other things. She will not stay out of our business concerning DD. I do not want her around my daughter. They have only been dating 3 months. Well last month she got an abortion. I am pro-life, but that is not the issue, she wants to be in my DD life, when she chose to kill her baby, because "she didn't want to be pregnant while he was deployed". Hmmm....Yeah....
Okay, So the issue of the day, I texted Sperm Donor and asked him if he wanted to take DD and I to the park and spend the day, seeing as DD's "Daddy" is gone for training. Well Sperm Donor said only if his gf could come. No. I don't want her around my DD.
So...should I stick to my guns or just cave?
Answer by Aidans_Mom915 at 10:12 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 5:08 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
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Answer by calliesmommie at 5:11 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Well, if you give in and let her come you know that you can no longer use the excuse that you don't want her around your daughter anymore. You can't allow it this one time and then in the future say no. Well, you could, but it wouldn't be fair. I say don't do it. You would just look like a hypocrite. Also, why can't he he take your daughter to the park without you? I don't understand why you would ask him to take you both. If I was his g/f I would feel uncomfortable. Now if you were already at the park and you just invited him to meet you there then that's different but to actually ask him to take you and her would be crossing the line IMO.
Answer by vnw1405 at 5:11 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by calliesmommie at 5:12 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by Sparta. at 5:21 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
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Answer by Sparta. at 5:53 PM on Mar. 21, 2009