My ex told the kids today that it is their fault for him getting a divorce from their step mother. He tells them that they are nothing but liars and everytime he promises to come see them he breaks their hearts by not coming. His kids are beautiful and hes missing out on so much and they are old enough to know. They are 15,12, and 10. How can he hurt them like thatAnswer Question
Answer by Mamaof2010 at 10:25 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by Praying at 10:30 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by kicknscreamn222 at 11:04 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
Answer by trebelcleff at 11:23 PM on Mar. 21, 2009
That is terrible! Just reassure them that it is NOT their fault and hard as it may be do not bash their father they are old enough that they are forming their own opinion about himand know that he is a jerk with out you saying it. Also if they don't want visitation try to get open visitation- I don't know if all states do that but my son was able to get that with his ex-father which meant if he didn't want to go he didn't have to.
Answer by goaliemom93 at 12:05 AM on Mar. 22, 2009