if they have seperate rooms, seperate them. or send one to the room and the other to your room. about coming to you over every single thing, tell them if they fight over something they both lose it. period. don't care who started it, who had it first, etc.
with my kids, once i've truely had enough of my kids bickering, i make them sit on thier knees facing each other with thier knees touching the others knees and holding hands. sometimes they have to put thier foreheads together. then i make them tell the other how much they love the other. then i ask "don't you love holding your brothers/sisters hand?" The answer is no. So I tell them that unless they want to be back there doing the same thing they'd better cut the fighting and get along.
at 4:46 PM on Mar. 28, 2009