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dont know what to do???

i have been with this guy for 2 yrs then he moved out because of different reasons, ok then i started seeing this guy i met online and we broke up and i got back together and he moved back in and now i dont know what is wrong with me, i feel i love him but not the way i used to, and i keep thinking i want to see other guys, i am so confused, please help me...

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:36 AM on Mar. 22, 2009 in Relationships

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  • you sound codependent. He was there and readily available. (I am not making assumptions just what it sounds like). Maybe you should take a break from guys for a little bit and then see where you are from there.

    Answer by ZaTa at 10:38 AM on Mar. 22, 2009

  • yes i am very codependent, why am i like this?

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:41 AM on Mar. 22, 2009

  • With children, you're opening yourself up to a lot of problems because kids need stability. You should date and not live with them till you figure out who and what you want. And once a relationship has ended, you can never go back to the same relationship, it's either better or worse but never the same.
    And I agree with Zata, you need to consider having a down time from men till you get it worked out in your own heart and mind what you want and need for you and your kids.

    Answer by lisa_ann_p at 10:42 AM on Mar. 22, 2009

  • you have a fear of being alone. It is either you feel you can't survive on your own, or you are afraid you will never find someone to settle down with. A lot of people are like this. It is just something that needs worked on. The fact that you are aware of it is a good thing though.

    Answer by ZaTa at 10:56 AM on Mar. 22, 2009

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