Mine was. He and my mom got married when she was a senior and he left for the service but when he was around he beat her(while she was carrying me) and cheated. Eventually she left him and he went to prison. When she remarried and my dad tried to adopt me when I was 8, I wasn't important enough to my bio sperm donor to stick with the procedings and fight for. :( Even now, when I reconnected with my his parents(my grandparents) he's been nothing like a father. He never sends bday cards or cards for my kids, never calls. I really really hate him. He has a son that is a couple years younger than me(conciveved when he was still with my mom) that also hates him. And now he's remarried and is a great dad to two little girls that are my kids ages. I'm just sick that my brother and I were never"go enough" for him. I hate hate hate him. I just don't understand how a parent can ever turn their back on their child.
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Answer by m-avi at 12:33 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
I have a sperm donor too. He was abusive to my mother and us. I watched him be abusive to his new wife and her kids. He would even fondle her kids it front of her and she did nothing. She is still with him today.
I also had the pleasure of watching my sperm donor wanting to see my brother and not me. I also watched him come visit my aunt and uncle who had a house behind ours (two house on one lot) he would walk by my house and go to their house and then leave. I tried to reconnect years ago and realized it was a big mistake and I was better off without him in my life and my children.
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