Does having an unexpected pregnancy, pregancy at a young age, and/or pregnancy at a very unstable time in your relationship or life make you really paranoid about having sex because you know you are not ready for #2?
I have just realized that I am SO scared of having sex because I dont want to get pregnant again. Ive had sex once since I had my DS in November and even though we used condoms, I was BFing (which I know is a lame excuse for birth control), and I got my period a month later I still stay up at night worrying about being pregnant again. I dont want sex at all because now I associate sex with getting pregnant and having another child-which I know I am not ready for.
Does anyone else ever feel this way?
Asked by Anonymous at 1:35 PM on Mar. 22, 2009 in Pregnancy
Answer by MissKellee at 1:39 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
OH yes I have felt the same way...a friend told me that this kind of issue has something to do with the couples relationship something about feeling unhappy towards the partner. But for me it was just a part of growing up. D o not worry this is just temporary the "paranoid will go away or it will transform in something you will be proud about.
Answer by Anonymous at 1:43 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
Answer by bugandsmiles at 1:58 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
Answer by coala at 2:48 PM on Mar. 22, 2009