That said Dear Mom, I feel like you don't love me, you are always yelling at me instead of encourging me..... I have to admit I am a yeller and My dd has ADD and She is very messy and kinda like spacey so I do get frustrated with her a lot of the time but finding this broke my heart....I feel incompitant as a mother like I have failed her in someways...so do I take her to see someone, talk to her? I will take any suggestions at this point I am desperate!!! Please Help!! No Negitivity please!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:17 PM on Mar. 22, 2009 in Money & Work
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I would talk to her about it in a way that you are trying to get her input tell her " I found this letter and it breaks my heart that you feel this way. What do you think I could do differently?" And really listen to what she has to say before you say anything. She will probably come up with some things that are not going to happen, but also things that you didn't realize bother her may be the real problem.
Also you are not alone in feeling incompetent as a mother I think we all do at some point and the preteen and teen years are when it really hits.
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