the father of my child broke up with me. he says the reason is because he feels like if we are together that we would be together forever and he is not ready for that kind of commitment right now.( i am in college and this pregnancy was not planned. ) he says that he will be there for me and thinks we could be together again if we work on trust issues (he has a lying problem and i have an obsession with his ex girlfriend). he has broke my heart once before a year ago. i dont know whether to cut him out of mylife and his childs or try to be friends and work on wat we have. he talks to his ex but promises me they will never be together again. he says he doesnt need to talk to her and he is friends with all his ex's which is true. i woul ask him to not talk to her but i am afraid bc sometimes ppl want things just because they cant have them. she has continuously tried to ruin our relationship by contacting me and him. i need helpAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:19 PM on Mar. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by xhellxfirex495 at 10:22 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
Wait until you have the baby and BEAT HER ASS...LoL On a serious note I wouldn't cut him off completely I would try and work on things I felt like I need to work on and if it didn't work out I would move on. I would still let he be there for his child but i wouldn't just cut him off completely. Guys are flaky and they never know what they want until it's gone.. Give it time and you will figure this out.
Answer by TaterNJo0sMommy at 10:23 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
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Answer by annie27713 at 10:28 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
I know how you feel. I was with my ex for almost 3 years and he didn't appreciate me. When I finally got sick of his BS and moved on I worked on the issue I needed to and give it some time he eventually came running back. Too late though i had already found My perfect match. We have been together for 6 years have 2 kids and are getting married in May..
Answer by TaterNJo0sMommy at 10:33 PM on Mar. 22, 2009
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