this girl always talks negatively about her current life, shes expecting and she always says how she wants to start over, she hates her life, shes deperessed she wants her life back she hates being pregnant, she hates when the baby moves...... etc etc she currently said this on her myspace
" Run away where no one knows me!!! To fucking start over!!! I fuckin hate my life I can't stop crying!!!"
how can someone be SO negative about their baby?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:13 AM on Mar. 23, 2009 in Pregnancy
Answer by burning_woman at 3:15 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:17 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:51 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by celticreverie at 7:38 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by KTMOM at 8:24 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by momofsaee at 8:33 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
I agree, having a baby can be scary. I had what I can only describe as "the honey moon period". We were so happy to be pregnant, and it was all sunshine and roses for a while, and then suddenly it hit me that we weren't prepared, we didn't have a lot of money, I had no idea how to be a parent, I was terrified of labor etc. I had nightmares about losing the baby (like I would put him down somewhere and forget where I put him.. not like miscarriage), or that I had to hold him forever because we had no crib lolol ..just really awful dreams. Everyone around me couldn't understand my panic at times, and I just couldn't seem to make them understand..it's possible she's coming to terms with the way her life is changing and her own inadequacies.It's hard suddenly realizing that YOU ARE THE MOMMY lol.
Answer by s.teph at 8:42 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
I have a friend who is going through this. It breaks my heart that she wont except the beauty of her pregnancy. ITS CALLED BEING INCREDIBLY SELFISH!!!! She can't think about anything but herself & her own problems. Her child probably will not have the best situation w/ mom. Mom already resents her child. I'm hoping that my friend will change after the baby is born. I'm praying that when she See's its face that she will turn around & love the baby & no resentment towards it. REALLY.....some woman were not meant to be moms. They just lack maternal instincts, it is very sad & there is not much you can do about it but encourage her. Maybe you can help her get some counseling. GOOD LUCK!!! Like the person said about it too though, this could be her negative way of coming to terms w/ her life changing. Hopefully she will change for the better in the end.
Answer by samurai_chica at 8:53 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by MissKellee at 8:55 AM on Mar. 23, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 8:57 AM on Mar. 23, 2009