my ex isnt what you would call father of the year. i have as little contact as humaly possible with him. he has contact with my son every other weekend and every other tuesday afternoon. most of the time he just leaves my son with his mother or if he is with him he doesnt look after him properly. my ex was extreamly abusiv to myself whilst we were togeather and even when we werent. now his new 18 year old girlfriend is pregnant and im really really angry and i dont understand why. i know that the little attention my son does get is going to be reduced again. i just dont know what to do. iv recently started persuing a relationship with a new man and he is wonderful. i dont want to let this interfear with it either.
Answer by Kerinmomof2 at 10:45 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by coala at 10:01 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Your angry because you wish that your child could have a father of the year. And now that he is having another child, it's going to take some of his time away from your child, and i'm sure there is a side of you that thinks he should probably stop making baby's if he cant be a good dad to the one he already has. It's ok to be a lil angry, you will get over it. If you end up being w/ this new fellow, let him know your child comes first, this way you will know from the get-go if he is OK with this or not. Some men are not.
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:03 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Is the visitation your EX gets with your/his son in the divorce??If it is not I would stop my son from going to see him..
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