the other day, my husbands sister shows up out of no where demanding to see my kids, long story short, this girl and i used to be VERY close,and she hates me for something SHE did, she hates me for it cause i know the truth and she thinks by being a bitch me, i wont say anything. -not true- anyways, i always let things she say slide, cause i know her life sucks and she hates the fact i have no. 1 say in my husbands, and kids life. that drives her CRAZY, shes used to getting what she wants, and im the 1st person to not give it to her. she had the nerve to tell me to drop my kids off to the park cause she wants to see them and doesnt want me there when it happens. it blew a f-in fuse for me. the dumb part, she called acting like shes bad ass 2 MINUTES after she was just her. clearly, she talks shit, but doesnt walk it. i had enough of it, so i went outside when she got back to kick her f-in ass! ...continued.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on Mar. 24, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by aidengrant07 at 12:40 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:54 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:55 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
you both need to grow up think about the example you are setting for your kids
Answer by Anonymous at 10:56 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Kill her w/ kindness. Not only does it get under evil peoples' skin, but it will teach her a lesson. every time she is rude, say something sweet to her. Really, it will driver her nuts. And i also aggree w/ # 1. Tell her to do the arranging w/ your husband, & that you will not do the arranging until she can speak to you with respect. don't "kick her ass" that is very immature, and it will only add fuel to the fire. Not a good idea.
Answer by samurai_chica at 10:57 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 10:59 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:01 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
It sounds like your husband was actually trying to protect you. You have to let this all go or you will loose your husband b/c you are going to drive him crazy. Let him deal with your sister. You don't have to. You need to let this go & allow your husband to take the kids over to her so she can see them with out you. Until things settle between the two of you. Take advantage of the free time and trust that your husband is going to take good care of them. After all he is their dad.
Answer by Anonymous at 11:01 AM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 11:02 AM on Mar. 24, 2009