Ok, sticky question.If you ask a family to borrow money say like @200.00, and you told them what it was for. Car insurance and cell phone to be exact. I gave her a check to put through on friday because i get paid. Anyways, if you told them what it was for, do you think it is okay for them to call another family member (one who works at the bank where you bank) and ask them if your account was overdrawn, or if it was going to be overdrawn. And where have you been writing checks too? The person that works at the bank didn't tell them anything because it is against bank policy, but she did call me and tell me that the other faimily member was fishing for information. In the end i ended up giving the money back, and told her that i was able to get the money elsewhere and didnt need to borrow it any longer. I would rather just deal with overdrafts that a family member doing that. Who was right and who was wrong?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:39 PM on Mar. 24, 2009 in Money & Work
Answer by mamakirs at 2:41 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 2:42 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by PaceMyself at 2:45 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by Mom1Stepmom1 at 3:01 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
They were wrong. Isn't that illegal for them to do that.
I do not let people borrow money fro me.I try not to borrow from them.
Answer by louise2 at 3:02 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Ok, let me rehrase the question. I guess i didn't borrow it from her . It was a loan. I gave her a check to deposit on firday to pay her back. I guess it wasn't borrowing.
Answer by Anonymous at 3:12 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by pagirl71 at 4:09 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Answer by TeaAnderson at 5:01 PM on Mar. 24, 2009
Loaning, borrowing, or lending to me is the same thing.. (Weather I am receiving or giving). I do not like to do them. Like my DH says. If family is asking for money(small amounts) do not expect it back.
Answer by louise2 at 9:45 AM on Mar. 25, 2009